Spiritual Coaching for Wildhearted Women in Midlife

Midlife isn’t a reckoning—it’s a reclamation.

Calling all wildflowers, late bloomers, seekers, and dreamers

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Calling all wildflowers, late bloomers, seekers, and dreamers 🌙

Kate Higgins, Spiritual Life Coach
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Hi, I’m Kate, a therapist turned spiritual life coach for unconventional women 40+.

If you've never fit the script—dodged the white picket fence, bailed on the soul-sucking corporate ladder, or got side eyed at the PTA meeting for being “a bit much"—welcome. You’re in the right place.

Most of us crash into midlife feeling like we missed the memo: perimenopause chaos, identity shifts that kick up grief, caring for aging parents, or those dark nights of the soul wondering “did I fuck it all up ?” 

Yep. I’ve been there.

They call it "the change" for a reason. Because you DO change. Midlife shakes you up, and yes, it can scare the hell out of you.

But here's the truth: you're not broken or lost. You're standing in the threshold of your Empress era, ready to unleash that wild, wise magic that's been simmering. Heal the Maiden wounds, honor the Mother's grind, claim the Empress power, and embrace the Crone's zero-fucks truth.

Ready to flip the script and rewrite your story?

From Aging Angst to Aging Anarchy !

I help women in midlife rediscover their magic through spiritual coaching, transformative retreats, menopause support, and counseling.

My mission is to ignite a sacred rebellion for unconventional women in midlife, transforming fear and chaos into joy and radiance. With clinical expertise and a rebellious heart, I offer spiritual coaching to help you step boldly into the most powerful phase of your life and shine unapologetically.

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Kate Higgins, Spiritual Life Coach

Let’s reimagine what it means to be a “woman of a certain age”

Let’s get untamed and unapologetic.

We all know the stereotypes about women over 40: we are supposed to be stuck, scared, ashamed, lonely. Crazy cat ladies who have given up or Botox Barbies frantically hanging onto our youth.

Even if you have a cat (or 2) and enjoy a bit of the ‘tox from time to time, we both know-midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s a canvas for magic. With bravery (and a little support), you have the capacity to create the most exciting era of your life.

When I was struggling through menopause and the reckoning that is aging, the only support available to me was focused on weight loss and youth preservation. I couldn't find anything geared towards the emotional and spiritual challenges I was facing –let alone anywhere that was CELEBRATING it. So I decided to create it myself.

My clients are unconventional women over 40 navigating the challenging chaos of midlife. Wild hearted dreamers who never fit the mold and covert rebels quietly waiting to step out of the sidelines. Women who hit the speed bump of midlife and (temporarily) forgot who they were.

I help them rediscover their magic and co-create a vibrant, purpose-driven life that sparkles on their terms.

Your Life’s a Sacred Journey—Let’s Honor Every Phase

Traditionally, we are taught that there are 3 phases of a woman’s life: The Maiden, The Mother and The Crone — but what IF there is a fourth phase? A sacred pause from the end of our reproductive years before we step into our highest wisdom?

I call this time between 45 and 65 The Empress Phase. And it’s a time for reclamation, reawakening and coming home to ourselves. This is the framework of my coaching. Like the Moon, every woman cycles through four phases, each with wounds and gifts:

Kate Higgins, Spiritual Life Coach
Kate Higgins, Spiritual Life Coach

Midlife chaos can send us into a panic, tempting us to cling to the Maiden’s youth, Mother everyone to exhaustion, or sit in fear of the Crone’s shadow.

In actuality, each of these phases are opportunities to connect deeply with our divinity.

My coaching is a sacred rebellion against midlife’s myth that we are sad, stuck and stagnant. Through soulful ceremonies, retreats, and rites of passage, I blend my clinical brain with a rebellious heart. Picture us burning old fears in a fire ceremony, mapping your soul’s path with the stars, or honoring your body’s changes—meno belly and all.

Our work will:

  • Release the fear (“I’m too old”) loneliness (“I don't fit in”) or shame (“I’ve done it wrong”) that binds us through guided ceremonies that set your spirit free.

  • Embracing midlife as an opportunity to step into your most creative time- reawakening your vitality with every shift.

  • Co-create a life that sings with purpose, whether you’re launching a dream or rewriting your story.

This is raw, sacred transformation to reconnect you to your desires and build habits that stick. Imagine a life you’ve chosen, sparkling with joy and built on your terms. That’s what we’re creating 🌙

JOIN THE REBELLION

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JOIN THE REBELLION 🌙

How We’ll Work This Magic

Claim Your Crown

Claim Your Crown

A Sacred Passage Through the Four Divine Portals: Heal Your Wounds, Uncover Your Gifts, Claim Your Crown (and wear it, unapologetically)

Who it’s for: Unconventional women 40+ wrestling with midlife’s chaos—identity wobbles, career ruts, a body that’s shifting (and a wardrobe that doesn’t fit it!), caring for aging parents, spiritual drift, or a lonely ache for connection. If you’re a dreamer ready to acend, this is your call to rise.

What you get: A 4-month virtual one to one mentorship with me that includes eight 90-minute sessions (2/month), blending my therapy-honed insight with spiritual fire. We’ll trace your Maiden-to-Empress Arc, wielding rituals (moonlit releases, EFT tapping), intuitive tools (Tarot, astrology), and divine channeling to burn away blocks and birth a personalized plan to thrive.

Why it’s magic: This is your sacred awakening, calling you to shine.—a 4-month journey to get you out of the confusing crossroads of midlife and firmly onto the glittery, gritty path of the divine feminine feeling safe, surefooted and powerful.

(4 months | $2997)

Empress Awakening

Hit me with your best shot

One time coaching

Stuck in a rut ? This is like a spiritual espresso shot—quick, potent, and CLEAR. If you’re stuck in one messy midlife spot: love, work, purpose, caretaking of your aging parents, illness-you name it-and you need some pinpointed, drilled down, guidance with an actionable plan, this offer is for you.

Why it’s magic: This one time 90 minute session is your wake-up call —a sacred pause to shift from stuck in the muck to reclaim your power. No BS or empty affirmations, just raw truth and a plan that gets you firmly back on track.

Investment $222 for 90 minutes

Stuck in a rut

The GROUP Coaching Package: Empress Awakened Immersion June 2026

A Soul-Deep Journey Through the Portal of Menopause: Honor Your Body, Love Your Life.

Who it’s for: Are you a woman in midlife, feeling the pull to step into who you are today—wild edges sharpened by wisdom? Empress Awakened is your permission slip to drop the expectations, heal old wounds, and step into your sovereignty.

This 4-week online immersion journeys through the feminine archetypes of Maiden-Mother-Empress-Crone—shedding outworn patterns, ditching outgrown identities, and claiming the gifts of each phase.

I'll be blending my spiritual practices with my 25 years of clinical expertise as a therapist, delivering real tools that help unconventional women like you break free and thrive.

Don’t let the old “shoulda coulda woulda” hold you back. Empress Awakened is your invitation to step boldly into the here and now, emboldened and empowered.

Format: Wednesday June 3rd, 10th, 17th and 24th from 5:30-7pm EST Online via Zoom +a private Facebook group.

Weekly 90-min theme call. Homework that feels more like homeFUN. All sessions will be recorded and send to the group.

Investment: $555

  • Craft Your Crown was exactly what I have been craving.  

    I clicked the invite link before I even had time to think about it, I just KNEW. 

    Kate has a whimsical charm that speaks to my soul offering warmth, authenticity, permission, and wisdom.I have been in a season of a lot of dissociation… yet I felt fully alive, fully present, fully embodied that day crafting my crown ~ Carly


  • Kate made me feel seen, heard and understood-having that space to just BE myself was so powerful. She made space for me to remember and voice desires that I had forgotten about.

    — Lisa

  • Kate put me at ease right away. I was able to get vulnerable and go deep during our work together. She and I crafted a beautiful ritual to release my grief around my divorce and at the end of our work together, I felt healed and ready for my next adventure!

    ~Michelle N

  • I found Kate through her podcast and signed up for a workshop she was offering on self acceptance for women who did not become mothers. She held space with such love and compassion. It was truly healing.

    ~Julia L

  • Grateful from the bottom of my heart to have stumbled across this offering. I felt so much heaviness lift from my shoulders. I’m truly so honored to have been a part of Kate’s workshop Tender. She is such a remarkable human being. ~JP

  • I had such a fun experience at Craft your Crown. Creating my crown brought playfulness, empowerment, and creativity which sometimes can get lost in the day to day. Kate did a beautiful job making this event a success! It was so nice being around a group of women where you could just feel the love immediately! ~Jill

  • Craft Your Crown was such a joyful and inspiring experience. It was so fun to be creative and craft on a beautiful beach alongside like-minded women. I LOVED all the options and play of it. Kate led the entire experience with such grace—always encouraging, always uplifting. The crowning and photoshoot at the end were the perfect way to step into confidence and really embody the beauty we had created. I left feeling so grateful for the magic Kate brings to her work. ~Andrea

  • What an honor to Craft my Crown with Kate ! I really feel it was such a graduation & celebration of our work together and me literally "creating" my own crown and finally crowning myself "The Empress".  The irony of it is I have for years called myself the Empress, I was trying to fit in to her shoes, and now I am truly an embodiment of her. (AND can speak to being the Maiden and the Mother). I've already communed with my Crone and she wrote a letter to me. I will reread it and meet up with her again, and again, and again. Everything has lined up and I feel like a lotus or a peony blooming, each petal a piece of the puzzle, a piece of the whole coming online. I’m so grateful for all your amazingness and for walking with me through this rite of passage ~ Karina

  • oh my goodness-understanding my crown from the perspective of the inner work and my connection with 

    my front teeth, my third eye. Owning and making peace with both of them inviting and forgiving and thanking both of them.  And ALL of the parts of me that came up to be put into a crown. 

    And there they are in my crown  and there I am being with my crown  and there you are too. 

    Creating and holding the space for every kind of crown.

    Thank you ongoingly for what you facilitated because there keeps being observable developments. 

    ❤️🙏😘🙌👑❤️ ~Jeanne


Your Magical Midlife Podcast

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Your Magical Midlife Podcast

Part confessional, part advice column, part investigative conversations with amazing women — YMM podcast has been recognized as one of the top 25 podcasts for women over 50!

Want to apply to be a guest and share your midlife adventures? Fill out this application here.

Clinical Social Worker Turned Life Coach

ABOUT KATE

Raised to believe I was too much—too loud, with dreams too grand for my working-class roots—I defied expectations.

In my twenties and thirties, I forged dual paths: earning a Master’s in Clinical Social Work while diving into NYC’s vibrant nightlife and studying esoterica. From assessing mental health in subway tunnels to dancing in underground clubs at 3 a.m., I’ve lived a spectrum of experiences. I weave this rich tapestry—wild, weird, and profound—into our work, empowering you with depth and authenticity.

why me

Midlife broke me open: a cross-country move, losing both parents, an unwanted hysterectomy, and leaving my corporate job, all in five years. As a lifelong seeker (and former part-time burlesque showgirl!), I leaned on spiritual tools and gritty self-discovery to find solace, joy, and a soul-deep awakening.

Without support, these years can feel heavy and raw. Our bodies shift, our priorities change, the identities that we built in our 20s and 30s can feel out of sync. You may feel regret, off your path or unseen.

Over the past decade, I’ve immersed myself in deep healing, yet my life remains beautifully imperfect—a work in progress, like yours. In our coaching, if an answer eludes me, we’ll uncover it together. My approach is collaborative, partnering with you to ignite your midlife transformation and reconnect with your soul’s radiant truth. With therapeutic expertise, profound compassion, and an inability to color within the lines, I offer empowerment coaching to help you reclaim joy, shed shame, and shine brilliantly. My mission is to reframe aging as an alchemical journey, guiding you from scared to sacred power—on your terms.

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Ready to Step Into Your Power?

Midlife isn’t the end—it’s a reboot, a chance to reshape your life with intention, grit and a sprinkle of glitter. Whether you’re ready to release old stories, embrace change, or dream bigger than ever, I’m here to witness and support you.

My coaching isn’t about fitting in—it’s about celebrating who you are, quirks, flaws, battle scars and all.

Let’s chat about how we can co-create a vibrant next chapter together.